Usually, Indian parents are considered to be the best parents in the world with them taking proper care and nurturing their lives of their children, providing the best facilities possible.
But, there are still a few places where they need to improve or rather have to improve. Here is our list of things that Indian parents got wrong.
1) Too Controlling
Indian parents care too much for their child and no doubt it has it's perks but at the same time it limits the child's options. They think that are caring for their kids and in a way it is true, but it can have a very crucial impact on the child's life. For instance, how many parents would allow their kids to drop out of prestigious colleges to start their own companies which have little or no worth. No wonder we don't have any Indian google or facebooks. Let me generalize, how many parents would approve their kids for choosing arts stream? Not much, I guess. And yet you wonder, wonder why we don't produce Mozarts and Da Vincis.
2) Too Pampering
Indian parents pamper their kids way too much, to the point that the kids don't even learn the basic chores like cleaning floors or booking a ticket or depositing money in their account. No wonder when they go out in the world, they get to deal with theft, cheating, robbery etc.
3) Too Possessive
Indian parents somehow have this misplaced idea that their child couldn't live without them or vice versa. So, they don't allow their child to go far from them be it for further education or better job, they don't approve of it thereby, depriving them of a much better and productive life.
4) Too obsessive
The Indian parents whole world revolves around their child. It is as though their whole life they live for their children. Now, it is not a bad thing, but, by being so much protective they don't allow their kids to learn from their own mistakes. Heck, they don't even allow their kids to make mistakes, so when they grow up they can't find their path in life and in many circumstances can't decide from wrong to right.
But, there are still a few places where they need to improve or rather have to improve. Here is our list of things that Indian parents got wrong.
1) Too Controlling
Indian parents care too much for their child and no doubt it has it's perks but at the same time it limits the child's options. They think that are caring for their kids and in a way it is true, but it can have a very crucial impact on the child's life. For instance, how many parents would allow their kids to drop out of prestigious colleges to start their own companies which have little or no worth. No wonder we don't have any Indian google or facebooks. Let me generalize, how many parents would approve their kids for choosing arts stream? Not much, I guess. And yet you wonder, wonder why we don't produce Mozarts and Da Vincis.
2) Too Pampering
Indian parents pamper their kids way too much, to the point that the kids don't even learn the basic chores like cleaning floors or booking a ticket or depositing money in their account. No wonder when they go out in the world, they get to deal with theft, cheating, robbery etc.
3) Too Possessive
Indian parents somehow have this misplaced idea that their child couldn't live without them or vice versa. So, they don't allow their child to go far from them be it for further education or better job, they don't approve of it thereby, depriving them of a much better and productive life.
4) Too obsessive
The Indian parents whole world revolves around their child. It is as though their whole life they live for their children. Now, it is not a bad thing, but, by being so much protective they don't allow their kids to learn from their own mistakes. Heck, they don't even allow their kids to make mistakes, so when they grow up they can't find their path in life and in many circumstances can't decide from wrong to right.
Did your parents got it right? Let us know in the comments.
